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  • The hidden gem question: answered honestly

    The hidden gem question: answered honestly

    Money note, since nobody else says it out loud: the whole thing cost less than a takeaway dinner, and most of the supplies came from the drawer I was about to throw out. I tested this for a month before writing anything. Three takeaways survived contact with reality: it is cheaper than it looks, it…

  • Notes from a rainy afternoon walk

    Notes from a rainy afternoon walk

    It started as a half-plan on a Tuesday and somehow became the highlight of the week. I wrote down everything while it was fresh, mostly so future-me could relive it — but if this helps you pick your own version of it, even better. A few practical notes before you try it: bring cash, give…

  • What I learned from doing it every day for 30 days

    What I learned from doing it every day for 30 days

    It started as a half-plan on a Tuesday and somehow became the highlight of the week. I wrote down everything while it was fresh, mostly so future-me could relive it — but if this helps you pick your own version of it, even better. A few practical notes before you try it: bring cash, give…

  • Why I keep coming back to this neighborhood

    Why I keep coming back to this neighborhood

    The trick, if there is one, is to go early and keep expectations light. Lines move fast, people are kind, and the small stuff — the extra napkin, the window seat — quietly stacks into a good time. Ranking things is a love language. This list is subjective, unscientific and updated constantly — argue with…

  • The counter seat nobody notices (until it does)

    The counter seat nobody notices (until it does)

    The trick, if there is one, is to go early and keep expectations light. Lines move fast, people are kind, and the small stuff — the extra napkin, the window seat — quietly stacks into a good time. Ranking things is a love language. This list is subjective, unscientific and updated constantly — argue with…

  • A beginner-friendly guide that actually works

    A beginner-friendly guide that actually works

    I tested this for a month before writing anything. Three takeaways survived contact with reality: it is cheaper than it looks, it rewards consistency over intensity, and the boring option is usually the one that works. The photos barely do it justice, which is exactly why I keep a blog instead of just a camera…

  • Two hours that changed how I plan my week

    Two hours that changed how I plan my week

    I tested this for a month before writing anything. Three takeaways survived contact with reality: it is cheaper than it looks, it rewards consistency over intensity, and the boring option is usually the one that works. The photos barely do it justice, which is exactly why I keep a blog instead of just a camera…

  • Top 5 picks after three months of testing

    Top 5 picks after three months of testing

    A few practical notes before you try it: bring cash, give yourself more time than feels necessary, and photograph the menu board — future you will want to know what that was. It started as a half-plan on a Tuesday and somehow became the highlight of the week. I wrote down everything while it was…

  • A small apology to my morning self

    A small apology to my morning self

    A few practical notes before you try it: bring cash, give yourself more time than feels necessary, and photograph the menu board — future you will want to know what that was. I nearly skipped writing this because it felt too small to share. Then I remembered the posts I love most on other people’s…

  • What nobody tells you about starting out

    What nobody tells you about starting out

    Ranking things is a love language. This list is subjective, unscientific and updated constantly — argue with it in the comments, that is what the comments are for. The trick, if there is one, is to go early and keep expectations light. Lines move fast, people are kind, and the small stuff — the extra…